Penne, bare with the Admins working on the situation... Gay teen chat is also having the same problem (Somewhat)
Reasons for the problems:
1) 321SexChat & 321GayTeenChat are both on the same server. Every other chat on 321 (including webcam chat) are on a different server. The server that 321SC & 321GTC are on had super lag problems and made it extremely difficult for the chats to function properly.
2) Way too many icons. They are working on reducing the lag by fixing icon problems.
3) The enter/exit messages "(This user has entered lobby whatever)" are happening because the admins have to re-fix the chat settings.
4) Chat data was basically reverted to a fresh copy in order to help with the lags and boots.
So, until they work out the kinks, SexChat & GayTeenChat will both unfortunately have minor flaws...