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Just another thought

Buzz

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I have been thinking a lot lately about relationships and I think there is a huge sacrifice to be in love, to be committed to someone who loves you though it all. On the other hand, you don't get experiences. You don't get to see what the other guys feel like. This has really made me think on things. Is it a luxury or a sacrifice to be with someone exclusively? I can't remember what it was like to be alone. I've heard hookups leave you feeling empty afterwards. Porn makes it look so easy and I think that's what confuses us.
 
I have been thinking a lot lately about relationships and I think there is a huge sacrifice to be in love, to be committed to someone who loves you though it all. On the other hand, you don't get experiences. You don't get to see what the other guys feel like. This has really made me think on things. Is it a luxury or a sacrifice to be with someone exclusively? I can't remember what it was like to be alone. I've heard hookups leave you feeling empty afterwards. Porn makes it look so easy and I think that's what confuses us.
I do agree in a way it can be a big sacrifice to be in love but I heard this thing that said "if you aren't dating for love and to marry "you are dating for heartbreak" it is a big commitment to be in a relationship with someone you love and only with them but as time goes on it's all worth it in the end even if you don't get experience with other people you will love your partner all the more I believe .. and it is a luxury to be with someone I'd say you do sacrifices somethings yes but it's luxury because you will have something rare love;

My thoughts on that

-Ernaline
 
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