What it means to be and express your trans identity differs from one person to another. "Some people use dress, behavior, and mannerisms to live as the gender that feels right for them. Some people take hormones and may have surgery to match their gender identity. Some transgender people reject traditional understandings of gender as only between "male" and "female". They identify as transgender, or genderqueer, genderfluid, or something else" (PP).
Wherever you are on your trans journey and whatever pronouns you choose to use (he, her or they) you are welcome here. 321 Trans Chat is a supportive and friendly place for the trans community both young and old. We have moderators who keep the chat room free of trolls. So free to enjoy this space to talk about your sexuality and gender identity!