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Johan sorry to hear you had an bad experience with some members or the chat. I happen to be gay and a Christian and a Son of God, it is through God's grace that we're both here and that God has created us both for his purpose. So with that bein said I hope and pray that you will someday understand that bein Gay is not a choice and that I was born this way, and just because I'm gay doesn't mean I'm into every guy I see, just like my str8 friends we're attracted to certain types of people for them it's girls and for me it's guys around my own age. So at the end of the day we're both children of God and I'm no more of an mistake by bein who I am than you are bein who you are. And the funny thing here is if you were to know me from Grade School all the way through High School you would never guess that I am gay. So for the record I'm pretty sure your friends with someone who is a member of the LGBTQ community whether it's someone from school, work, church a friend of a friend, we're every where in every community. And to end this ya gotta remember what God want's us to do - "Love thy neighbor as you love yourself" - everyone needs love and who you love isn't always the way some Christian Church's teach it's follower's.I don't have any hatred towards homosexuals. Just like everyone, I only despise the people in this world who harm others purposely.
I don't support in their community though. It's against my beliefs as a Christian.
I shouldn't be criticized on that alone. There's probably many things all of you have no reason to support due to your beliefs in things.
Once in chat. Someone asked me if I supported PRIDE. I was honest and said respectfully "No, I don't support it." Suddenly all of this hate back and forth. Nonstop bickering.
Not like any of the things they said and the names they called me had any affect. But I thought it should be mentioned.
Like I said. I have no hate towards them. I'm an orthodox Christian. I support in straight relationships only.
Understand not supporting something is very different from showing prejudice towards it.
We are all different and I get that completely. We all have our views on things.
I wouldn't show hate towards you if you didn't support in straight marriage. Although I think it's wrong. I understand some think it's right.
Thinking that wouldn't really harm anyone in chat. So I wouldn't really care much of it.
-Johan
I feel you misunderstand ‘Pride’ - it was born out of the fight to exist and have legal rights which still in many parts of world do not exist at all and even punishable by death - as far as hatred of straight marriage goes - it sounds even-handed - but in reality no one has to fight for the right for straight marriage - it’s a given. Hatred is not just about individual thought but the culture of organisations and countries and sometimes silence in the face of a struggle to have rights equals acceptance of that discrimination.I don't have any hatred towards homosexuals. Just like everyone, I only despise the people in this world who harm others purposely.
I don't support in their community though. It's against my beliefs as a Christian.
I shouldn't be criticized on that alone. There's probably many things all of you have no reason to support due to your beliefs in things.
Once in chat. Someone asked me if I supported PRIDE. I was honest and said respectfully "No, I don't support it." Suddenly all of this hate back and forth. Nonstop bickering.
Not like any of the things they said and the names they called me had any affect. But I thought it should be mentioned.
Like I said. I have no hate towards them. I'm an orthodox Christian. I support in straight relationships only.
Understand not supporting something is very different from showing prejudice towards it.
We are all different and I get that completely. We all have our views on things.
I wouldn't show hate towards you if you didn't support in straight marriage. Although I think it's wrong. I understand some think it's right.
Thinking that wouldn't really harm anyone in chat. So I wouldn't really care much of it.
-Johan
Very well articulatedI feel you misunderstand ‘Pride’ - it was born out of the fight to exist and have legal rights which still in many parts of world do not exist at all and even punishable by death - as far as hatred of straight marriage goes - it sounds even-handed - but in reality no one has to fight for the right for straight marriage - it’s a given. Hatred is not just about individual thought but the culture of organisations and countries and sometimes silence in the face of a struggle to have rights equals acceptance of that discrimination.