My cis female partner constantly emasculates me

[Sloppyfart]

My girlfriend constantly seeks to emasculate me, often attacking my masculinity.

I'll give some examples below...

When I go to fill my car with petrol, I'll usually wear the plastic gloves they provide, she will accuse me of being gay as "straight men don't wear gloves".

When we go to Starbucks, I usually order hot chocolate (as I'm not a huge coffee guy), she'll tell me "hot chocolate is for little boys who sleep next to their mom".

One time, I was at her apartment, waiting to go out and she was still in the bathroom, I decided to try on some of her jewelry and take a few selfies, she got enraged accusing me of being a "closet trans woman".

When we are on nights out, she purposely tries to start fights with other women and expects me to back her up, often I just pull her away from the situation and she accuses me of being scared of the women she's tussling with.

During intimacy, if I ever suggest doing anything with her ass she'll hit me and call me some kind of homophobic slur.

How do I stand up to her

 

[Taceaux]

i sure felt like coming to the forums tonight to read about someone "doing things with her ass"

 

[Sloppyfart]

i sure felt like coming to the forums tonight to read about someone "doing things with her ass"

So you agree with her?

 

[Taceaux]

dude....what the hell...nobody wants to hear about ur intimate ass doings

 

[Sloppyfart]

dude....what the hell...nobody wants to hear about ur intimate ass doings

So that's all you got from my post about experiencing abuse? homophobe

 

[Taceaux]

nothing to do with homophobia...i don't think u realize there are some subjects u just don't splatter on a forum for all to see...and referring to sexual play with her ass is just not appropriate here

 

[Sloppyfart]

nothing to do with homophobia...i don't think u realize there are some subjects u just don't splatter on a forum for all to see...and referring to sexual play with her ass is just not appropriate here

Deflecting from.your homophobic comment again. ALSO why isn't it appropriate? This is dating a relationships in which sex happens.

 

[Taceaux]

maybe because this is an all-ages site and forum and 13yos can see this? or do u think it's ok to breach these subjects with minors watching?

and im not homophobic whatsoever, but go ahead and continue ASSuming i am

 

[Veritas]

Leave her. She sounds exhausting and toxic.

 

[Sloppyfart]

maybe because this is an all-ages site and forum and 13yos can see this? or do u think it's ok to breach these subjects with minors watching?

and im not homophobic whatsoever, but go ahead and continue ASSuming i am

I can help if minors see this but sexuality is nothing to be ashamed of but your homophobic comment explains why you'd think that. Also funny how you think it's okay for someone to abuse others but get outraged about normal sexuality

 

[Taceaux]

dude get over it...it wasnt a phobic comment

however, ur a puss...stand up to her

 

[Sloppyfart]

I'm afraid of her, and that's a gender slur what next you going to attack me for being a POC ?

dude get over it...it wasnt a phobic comment

however, ur a puss...stand up to her

 

[Taceaux]

funny how u cant stand up to her...but all u do with everyone else is use phobic as a reply

stop ur damn whining and stand up to her..and get over urself

 

[Sloppyfart]

funny how u cant stand up to her...but all u do with everyone else is use phobic as a reply

stop ur damn whining and stand up to her..and get over urself

Everyone? No only you. Nice victim blaming BTW.

 

[Sloppyfart]

Leave her. She sounds exhausting and toxic.

She says she would slash my throat if I did.

 

[Chatter]

 

[Veritas]

She says she would slash my throat if I did.

Then go to the police and get a restraining order.

 

[Taceaux]

this is such an insane thread lol

 

[Sloppyfart]

Then go to the police and get a restraining order.

I have and was laughed at then told they don't hand out IVOs for everything.

 

[doodoo]

You have a girlfriend?