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unchecked mods, religion bully

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Cozy

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tonight i was in the religion room, enduring koshergals abuses again. being told my opinions are invalid, and hers were not. so i said... u know what. ima put u on ignore for three mins so i can calm down. i did so, and when i came back to the room this user was complaining to lores, a mod, about me having ignored her. i said thats my right, to ignore you. anyways im back. and she had sent some messages to my fiance telling him how she was offended and i was to unblock her right away. i said... lores can u pls freaking tell her to stop announcing to ppl when she ignores someone, but getting offended constantly when someone ignores her. shes a controlling monster and minimods everyone. she knows better, she used to be a mod. he ignored me, and then put me on ban. and my fiance. so i smashed my phone. im glad too. tired of this. also, kansasgirl2020, a mod, told me she should just go kill herself cause everyone in the religion rooms hate her. i was guilt tripped and ended up in the er that night. she wanna pay my 2k ambulance bill cause she put me in a fit? so im the hell outta here. see ya. my fiance is leaving too. and my sister. as i was leaving i asked a few users, have i been a jerk? and they said they never saw me misbehave, only reacting to ppl treating me badly and then the mods ignoring it. i have contacted chat master. this is absurd. i was going to stay a year to help become a mod and patrol the room fairly, and properly, and respectfully, especially because i rarely feel the need to ignore someone so i dont even use the ignore feature. but i cant stand that the mods dont even follow the rules themselves. srry about using names here. i tried to report to several mods appropriately but they have all ignored the issue continuously. koshergal is a bully to no end. everyone knows it. take care. i have never smashed an electronic device before out of rage, i have never hit someone. that is how mad i was. that i destroyed my phone and hit the bed. ive been enduring these abuses for close to a year unchecked. goodbye to the ppl who were epic. ^_^ love you, praying for you. take care. god bless you jimjams. take care swedish. <3 delete me account. my fiance is yeti. he wants his deleted too. good riddens. this is what happens when you let a bully lord her beliefs over the chat site for so long that someone cant stand to see it anymore. kosher just can never be wrong, can she? you lose ppl, friendships, a good space in the room, and mods with the potential to actually be sweet and caring. clarissa should be a mod for that room. shes the only one who has kindness through and through. superbpoet has a head on his shoulders so calm. kevinuk is respectful. why are the worst ppl in there in charge? you need ppl like superb clarissa and kevin cause the others are checked out and they dont actually care about what is going on in the room. you need someone who can respectfully say to someone being a jerk, "hey...not cool dude. wanna chat? lets calm down...and pls explain to me whats wrong? how can i help? whos bugging ya?" where are those ppl? you shouldnt allow your mods to ignore concerns for gah, almost a year? it clearly says in your rules NO MINI MODDING. and yet kosher is in the dictionary next to the word. its not just kosher tho, there are a few who have bullied and go unchecked...and kosher how dare you say im intolerant ever, i celebrated hanukah with you girl and im christian! but you cant even let me be me?! like, ever?! i have a menorah with a cute lil lion on it that i bought just to celebrate with you because i got tired of the remarks against you. i had your back at one time. i feel you have been bullied a long time too. why doesnt this site not fix that? why can't ppl be good?
 
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There's a more appropriate way to go about all of this. Report feature, file mod complaints to admin, admin complaints to @ChatMaster.

You seem a little thin skinned to mod in my opinion but that's not here nor there (because I'm not technically anybody on this site).

All of the data deletion requests could have been in the message to CM no need for a big exit interview.

Best of wishes to you.
 
surely you could have messaged an admin or a mod who isn't operated in that room explaining your problems then at least there could be a way in which it could be delt with without you causing grevious bodily harm to yourself
 
As above (again) stated, there are more appropriate ways for this to be handled.

You did contact mods (multiple) they have passed the message on to Admins.
Please understand Admins/staff have lives outside of chat also and we get to matters when we can.
Until we do, you have the ignore fetaure.
I have just seen your message to myself and have not even had a chance to look into it before this.
I will be looking into this.

As for you smashing your device, that's a you problem - control your temper and your device would not be smashed.
No one else is responsible for your behaviour with that, you're a grown adult.

And my advice is, if you're getting guilt tripped by someone online where you end up in the ER with a 2k ambulance bill - I'd say maybe stay away from online chats.. or seek help.
 
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